Divorce and money: five steps to a financially happier divorce

There's a lot to think about when you're divorcing - we take a look at what you need to know when it comes to divorce and money.

January is usually the most popular month for unhappy couples to file for divorce. If you're breaking up with your partner, there may be alot to think about. Divorce and  money is one of them.

This year looks set to be even busier for family solicitors, with the introduction of a new ‘no fault’ law in April 2022, which enables you to separate without having to apportion blame to one party. 

Divorce can be incredibly stressful and upsetting so it’s important that you take care of your mental, physical and financial health. According to analysis from Handelsbanken Wealth & Asset Management, married people are on average £150,000 wealthier than divorced people. 

Here are five financial steps to a happier divorce.

1. Divorce and money: when to seek advice

Stress levels are likely to be heightened when you're going through a divorce, but it’s important to keep a clear head and think about your finances too. Build a support team around you, including close friends, family and a therapist, and put money aside immediately for professional advice, says Menna Cule, financial planner at wealth manager Brewin Dolphin.

As the divorce process involves the division of assets, such as property, investments, pensions, it is important that you fully understand what you have, how much they are worth and what you are entitled to. 

Seeking out a financial adviser who can help you draw up a list of joint and personal assets and valuations, can also make your solicitors appointments more cost effective because any advice you seek is based on accurate information.

2. Review your household budget when divorcing

Your household income, certainly initially, is likely to be significantly reduced while going through a divorce. It is essential that you take a  look at your personal finances and day-to-day spending. Not only will this give you a deeper understanding of your financial situation, and that which you shared with your ex, but it will enable you to identify where cutbacks can be made. Create a new budget to track your incomings and outgoings. To get started, take a look at the budgeting tool from the government's Money Helper site.

3. Protect your credit score

You’ll be surprised at how many financial products and agreements you share with your ex-partner from utility bills, to mortgage repayments and credit cards, so it’s worth checking your credit report, says Louise Colley, Zurich UK’s head of retail protection.

You can do it for free by using one of the main credit reference agencies: Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion. Your credit report lists all the financial agreements you have. Any shared agreements will show up and could impact your ability to borrow money in the future as any potential lender may look at both you and your ex’s credit rating, even if you are long divorced and it’s only you making the application for credit. 

4. Cancel joint financial commitments 

Now that you know exactly how many shared financial commitments you have, it’s time to end them. Make sure that all joint credit cards and accounts are closed, paid off in full or at the very least changed to either your name or your former partner’s, says Colley. An unscrupulous ex could go out on a spending spree, use your savings or run up debts to which you would be liable for which could seriously impact your future. Going forward make sure you open any accounts solely in your name.

Once you have closed or converted all shared accounts, get in contact with the credit reference agencies to request the financial link to your ex be removed from your report. 

If you still have a mortgage which you are both named on, you need to try to maintain payments in the short term as you’re both liable for the full amount. If you can’t come to an agreement, or one party is struggling with payments, talk to the mortgage company. Your provider may allow you to pay interest-only for a period, or take a break while you sort something out, says Sarah Coles, senior personal finance analyst, Hargreaves Lansdown.

5. Update your Will when divorcing

Even with new no fault divorce laws coming in in April, which should bring an end to long drawn out proceedings, marital breakdowns can still take many months to resolve. If the worst were to happen to you, and you haven’t changed your will - or written one altogether - your ex stands to get most, if not all of your assets. Make sure you update this as soon as possible to ensure that your wishes are followed.